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Helena Partridge's avatar

Thank you for sharing this. I so recognize what you say. I think it was Clarissa Pinkola Estes said there are times in a woman's life when it's essential for her life that she doesn't stop to help others. Also I have observed - to my great surprise - that when I feed myself it often seems to nourish others close to me. I love your writing, especially the fascinating Erzya essays (I am half Finnish).

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Vlasta's avatar

Thank you so much, Helena for the kindness of reading my words 🥰🙏🏻 I do agree! I know when I'm nourished, everyone benefits, but sometimes I feel like I have to claw it out too so it doesn't feel like nourishment at the end, just more labor...buuuut I'm working on it!

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Helena Partridge's avatar

When I came upon your writing and profile my first thought - after how wonderful, I'm following this - was how can Vlasta be doing it all?

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Vlasta's avatar

Ahahah! I'm definitely not doing it all:)

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María Castro Jiménez's avatar

I was just having a pretty low moment when I´ve opened your post. I feel a little like seeing your post right at this moment was like you finding that butterfly. So for that, thank you.

I was wondering if you use tarot, and then I´ve seen a picture of some cards in the post. I pull for myself when I feel hopeless or lost, and it helps.

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Vlasta's avatar

I'm sorry you're going through a low moment right now! I feel like we all are collectively being put through the wringer. I have a feeling we'll get some relief on the 11th, after the effects of the Full Moon will wear off.

I love tarot! I mostly use one deck that I've had for over 10 years, she knows me too well at this point😅

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Sisi ✨'s avatar

Thank you for opening up this raw part of yourself. I know I’m not alone in the comments saying that this helped me in a time where I feel stuck, with no where else to go. Please share more sayings! I’m going to write some of the ones you shared today and place them around my apt. <3

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Vlasta's avatar

I'm so happy to have helped but sad that you could relate! Wishing you a relief from all the troubles ♥️

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Leah Middleton's avatar

Thank you for reflecting with us and sharing such a personal journey. Your words echoed some things I’ve been feeling — particularly operating from a place of shame and how to alchemize it. Giving you a tight digital squeeze from afar 🫂 because “this too shall pass” (something my friends would remind me back in the day when things were tough).

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Vlasta's avatar

Thank you so much, friend!

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Mary's avatar

Thank you for articulating how I'm feeling! Your words have inspired snd comforted me.

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Vlasta's avatar

Makes me happy to hear 🙏🏻♥️

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Late Night Mascara Runs's avatar

This was so beautifully written Vlasta. I appreciate your vulnerability. This post came at such a critical time for me, like the butterfly for you! 🦋

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